Toxic people are not always exposed as such and they are found all around us. Mostly because of concealment, they are met on a daily basis without being aware that we are meeting the wrong people. Unfortunately, they can sometimes be the most unexpected people and need to be taken seriously.
It is very difficult for most people to believe that their friends and family can be of this nature, but it can still be a reality and should be accepted. Although they are close to you, they can be just as toxic as strangers or associates you are not necessarily close to. Also, the fact that they have long been an integral part of your life does not mean that they cannot do you harm. This may sound weird, but even the most significant people in your life can sometimes have the worst intentions.
Disguising themselves as your friends, these people can be your worst enemies, because they are in your closest surroundings all the time, and you don’t even have a sense that they can hurt you. No matter what qualification is used for such personalities, whether they are toxic or just dangerous overall, these people are not the kind of people you want in your life. They may not be of any use to you but may drag you down using their own words and actions against you.
If you notice that these people are destroying you and doing harm to your life, no matter who they are, there is nothing wrong with breaking their relationship with them. When it feels like your family and friends are hurting you, it is best to leave them in the past in order to promote a positive future. Although quitting with the family members and friends can be a lot harder than letting strangers go, there is no doubt that that kind of person (toxic people), don’t deserve to be in your life.
Everyone should prevent people who constantly lie, accuse them of things they have no control over and manipulate reality. If these people are not prevented, it just adds more fuel to a fire that is already falling apart and is a terrible idea. The best way to prevent your condition from worsening is to remove those types of people from your life even if it hurts.
People should be aware that they do not owe anyone their independent lives, not even their relatives (aunt, uncle, and mom) or best friends. It is important for all people to recognize the return to the real effort you are making to others, and if this is not the case then no time should be wasted. You need to make a distinction between people who truly care about you and who will never leave you, with those who are toxic, never forget that.
If you would like to learn more about disconnecting and ways to do it with people closer to you than you want to admit, check out the video below.
Always keep in mind your well-being and always do what is best for you and not for those around you, because at the end of the day you are left with yourself. So remember well, be there for yourself above all else.