There’s one popular saying that goes like this: “There is nothing that can happen TO you, that can’t also happen FOR you… if you’ll let it”. The sooner you accept the idea hidden in this sentence, the better for you.
It is more than clear that when people are going through some of the most difficult times of their lives, it is hard for them to look for the bigger picture in all that negativity. But the point is, the bigger picture is out there somewhere. We just have to keep looking for it. How else can we grow, if we don’t give life a chance?
There’s no such thing as coincidence!
Since we’ve been raised in a society in which they taught us that there’s always someone to blame for things that happen to us, except for ourselves, it’s easier to believe that things are happening TO you. Thus, people are usually giving away their power and playing the role of a victim instead.
The hard, unpopular truth that many people are unfamiliar with, is that there is no such thing in life as a coincidence. One should understand that everything happens for a reason that you might not be able to understand at the beginning, but there will be time when you’ll get to the point of it. Once you accept this, it will make a profound impact upon your life.
One should understand that life is full of ups and downs, ins and outs, construction and expansion. It’s all part of being a human.
Life is full of lessons we have to learn from
Everything we face ourselves with, no matter if it’s good or bad, is a lesson we must learn. As we all know, when one door closes, there is another one opened for you just behind the corner. That means that everything happens for a reason and there’s always something driving us to where we need to be.
The point is, all the things we experience in life are meant to give us room to improve. Thus, enabling us to grow and progress. We should understand that life happens for us. Even the most painful things we experience exist just to make us stronger. Every problem we come across prepares us for what is to follow.
And remember, whenever you are feeling down or at your lowest, there is no place lower than that. The only place you can go from there is up. Embrace it all, learn the lesson the life made you to and move on. That way you get stronger than you were before!