Perfection is not the best thing that people want, because it doesn’t really exist. This also applies to the demands of the children about their mother, who, to be the best, does not have to be perfect. The sooner one realizes that perfection is imaginary, the better it will be for them all.
How to be the best mother is not prescribed by any manual, but women learn over time how to become happy. It has been proven that a mother who cares for your needs as well as your children’s needs, you will be a great mom. Real mothers do not have to strain so much for their mistakes, they can accomplish what they want if they just give their best and support their children in whatever they choose to do and be in life. They need to ignore the little things that can make children go wrong, to reinforce the things that make them happy and to learn to look positively at whatever is happening to them.
No one can believe to be happy 24/7, but if happiness is promoted at every possible moment in life, people will be happy for a long time. Depending on the situation, many will move here and there or discover that things are getting too complicated, but this does not need to restrain anyone. The fact that some mothers feel tired does not mean that they cannot be happy or that they are not doing their job properly.
A happy mom does not hide her frustration from the world, because it is normal sometimes to be a little irritated and even to show a negative side. It should not be allowed to charge with things that act negatively and turn people into unhappy persons.
By meeting the needs of your children, you make them feel happy and can often be caused smiles on their faces, which shows that you are doing your job well and you deserve recognition. When your children are happy you are happy too. Their positive and incredible sides should always be emphasized.
Children’s love for their parents is unconditional and they will love them even if they make a mistake sometimes, they will not mind when they have a bad day or if something is not going well at that moment. Kids want to see parents comfortable and content in their lives, and they don’t want them to be obsessed with being a superhero all the time, because parents are always superheroes even when they don’t seem like this.